In the know.

It’s summertime which means it’s time to fire up the grill to reap the many health benefits associated with grilled vegetables.

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Planners are quick to acknowledge that they have their affairs in order with Powers of Attorney established, Long-Term Care Insurance secured, and a thoroughly discussed plan with their spouse or children if there are changes in health or mobility. Perhaps the plan includes bringing in paid helpers into the home to manage care, or planning to move in with children, while some might set their aim on moving into a retirement community.

But here is the problem with these plans, they are fully dependent on everything lining up just right to work. Those with a plan have already managed all of the "what ifs" long before the surprise variables even become an issue.

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What is the difference between a planner and someone who has a plan? 

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Are you well-connected to the past, present, and the future? Those who are aging-well say, yes! 

The past, present, and future are the ingredients in the recipe that makes us who we are. As we age, we must be careful not to ruminate in the past, miss out of the joy of today, and avoid too much worry about the future. While aging-well requires many things, maintaining a healthy connection the past, present, and future should be especially high on the list. More specifically, striking the right time balance for where the mind camps can be an especially beneficial discipline to uphold, honoring the past, taking hold of the present, while looking at the future with hope and anticipation.

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Bill Quinton underwent a procedure meant to prevent future strokes. Instead, he had a stroke on the operating table. “A nightmare is what followed,” Kay explained. “An absolute nightmare.” When the hospital discharged Bill, Kay shared, “They said they’d done all they could do for him. That’s when we took him to Mirador.”

“Bill had speech, physical and occupational therapy,” Kay said. “Let me tell you, those Mirador people are angels on earth. Truly.”

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